Traditional ABA: Adult chooses activities and directs all tasks

Our Approach: We follow your child’s interests and let them take the lead

What this looks like:

• If your child loves dinosaurs, we build communication goals around dinosaurs
• If your child needs a break, we honor that
• If your child says “no,” we respect their autonomy
• We join their play rather than demand they join ours
• Skills are taught through activities they naturally enjoy

Why it matters: Kids learn better when they’re engaged and interested. More importantly, they deserve agency over their own learning.

Traditional ABA: Tries to make kids “indistinguishable from peers”

Our Approach: Celebrates each child’s unique identity

What this looks like:

• We honor your child’s communication style
• We respect their sensory needs
• We build on their strengths and interests
• We never shame or punish autistic traits
• We create space for them to be fully themselves

Why it matters: Every child deserves to feel accepted and celebrated for who they are.

Traditional ABA: Views autism as something to fix or eliminate

Our Approach: Views autism as a neurological difference to understand and support

What this looks like:

• We never force eye contact
• We don’t stop harmless stims (they’re regulatory!)
• We don’t teach “quiet hands” or compliance
• We use identity-first language when appropriate
• We listen to autistic adults
• We celebrate your child’s authentic self

Why it matters: Forcing kids to mask their autism causes trauma and mental health issues. We support growth without compromising identity.

Traditional ABA: Professionals are “experts” who tell families what to do

Our Approach: Families and professionals are equal partners

What this looks like:

• You drive the goals—we don’t impose our priorities
• Your input shapes every session
• We adjust based on your feedback
• We respect your family’s values and culture
• You can say “no” to any recommendation
• We’re here to support YOUR vision for your child

Why it matters: You know your child better than anyone. We’re here to support your family’s goals, not push our own agenda.